What A Difference A Year Makes

As crazy as it seems, it was exactly one year ago today that I was admitted to the hospital. First of all, the last time I have gone a year without a hospital stay was over a decade ago. This is marking some new territory and I hope it stays that way. Secondly, it was also exactly a year ago that we went to court for all our surrogacy legalities.

There is actually quite a story involved and yet another miracle for court working out exactly as it did, but that my have to be told at a later date. What I actually want to write about is what happened during court. I remember it very vividly, it is one of those moments that changes you, makes you better, and leaves you in awe of the tender mercies and love that the Lord has for you.

Our appearance in front of the judge was actually in the judges chambers. I remember sitting in a chair and everything seeming so surreal, this was it, this was the start of our child coming to be. I remember looking at both Spencer and Abby and thinking, wow, we are really doing this. They are really going on this journey with us. What happened next was something I never would have expected. Quoting from my journal:

"Our lawyer was stating the medical necessity for surrogacy (in UT it is required to have a medical need.) and was discussing my health and the fact that I would most likely not survive another pregnancy and that I almost didn't survive the first one. (This coming from a letter my Dr. wrote. It's really kind of surreal listening to someone tell your story from their perspective. As he spoke I felt a flood of memories from the past 6 years come pouring in washing over me. I felt all the heartache and hard work in getting healthier and struggling with the decision to have another baby, constantly wondering if I would survive or bounce back like I did before. Suddenly everything I had been through was validated and now was the time to move on from all of those emotions and know that this was the Lords plan all along. This is where he had led me, led us and none of it was done in vain. I felt a release from those past struggles and an overwhelming peace and joy for the future. It took everything I had to hold back the tears that were bursting inside of me. It was finally happening, the baby I had been waiting for, that had been waiting for me was closer than ever. I knew this was His plan and none of us could deny it."

Now exactly one year later I am overcome with emotion at the sweetness that is my life. I am filled with gratitude and joy beyond belief and I know there are still many amazing experiences left to fulfill. My God is a good God! He is full of love, joy, and mercy and I look forward to the continued journey He is leading me and my sweet family on.

Lawson Blessing

On February 6th 2011 we had the amazing opportunity of having our little guy blessed in church. Ben did such an amazing job and I am so grateful to be married to a man that honors his priesthood and is worthy to bless our children. It was a beautiful blessing and our son has great things in store for him. I pray that Ben and I can help to mold him and lead him where he needs to be in his life.

The Happy Parents

Four Generations, I love these women

Ben with all of his grandparents.  This is a fabulous picture we didnt even know his Kizerian grandparents when Cambree was born.

Kathi and Bull have practically adopted us.  We are so grateful to have them in our lives.

My mom and dad Ericksen,  Cambree was not feeling well, but she was a champion

Me with my namesake Sophia Emilee Beaird.  I love this girl, she makes me smile.

Dad and Mom Cox

I love this picture.  Abby made it all possible.

We have all had quite a year together.

Ben with his Kizerian couins, it was fun having them here.

After the blessing we watched the big game, that stunk.  We were all in our Steelers gear so Aunt Whit bought Lawson a little of his own. Too bad they couldnt pull it together.

All in all it was a fantastic day!  We have so much love and support from so many family and friends.  We are so blessed!

He's 30!

Well He's finally 30!  I just wanted to make a post especially for Ben on his birthday.  Its funny to me that Ben is 30 and we have known and been together since he was 16 years old.  That is nearly half our lives.  So crazy!  We have certainly been through a lot of stuff together and I like to think we have come out stronger than before.  Yes,Im going to be sappy!

Ben met me when I was very cynical about love and relationships.  He taught me what it means to love and be loved in return.  He has stuck by me through some very scary times when I think most would have bolted for the door.  I still remember when we were dating and we were very serious talking about marriage, I asked him if he really knew what he was getting into with me and dealing with my illness.  He said he did (although, know one can really be prepared for all that this brings).  I told him I wouldnt blame him if he turned and ran beforeit got too serious and he told me that he loved me with or without CF and probably more with because it helped make me who I am.  He has always promised to stand by me through everything and he has gone above and beyond the call of husbandly duties i.e. grown-up diapers.  Another story entirely.

There are times when I think I couldnt possibly love this man anymore and then amazingly I do.  Im so proud of him and the person that he is.  He has taught me so much about dealing with adversity and rising above it.  All th while having an incredible attitude.  He continues to try to teach me to not fret over the stuff i have no control over.  Im learning...kind of.  He never ceases to amaze me with his ability to handle tough situations and people from all walks of life.  He is the most amazing father and our kids are so lucky to have him. 

I am so proud to be his wife.  There is no one that can tick me off more than him and in the next instant have me in full on belly laughs.  Thanks for all you do Ben.  Thanks for your willingness to share your life with me!  Thank you for being the most brave, and funny person I know,  There is never a dull moment.

I love you baby!  Happy 30th Birthday!

A much younger version of Ben on his mission

Thanks for always amusing me and going to Disneyland way more than you ever wanted.

Thank you for adoring me.  I never wonder how you feel.

Thank you for being the most incredible father.

Thank you for filling our lives with joy!

Thank you for your humor!

Thank you for your love

Pictures

We got the kids' pictures done when Lawson was just over 5 weeks old. I think they turned out fantastic! I LOVE THEM!!! Jammie Hansen did them and she did such a good job. She captured everything I hoped she would. There were so many too choose from and I know I ordered way too many, but here are a few of my favorites.